Popular social media personality ChiomaGoodHair has sparked online discussions after firmly responding to a fan’s unsolicited advice about marriage and childbearing.
The exchange began when a fan named Rama commented on Chioma’s post: “Yeah it’s better for you to get husband and kids before it’s too late dear so beautiful you are.”
In a fiery yet measured response, ChiomaGoodHair pushed back against the societal pressure: “I know you mean well but I don’t like messages like this Rama. Don’t put pressure on me please. What is ‘too late’ lol. With all the technology in the world. Stop it!”
The influencer, believed to be in her early 30s, emphasized her deliberate life choices: “Plus I’m in my 30’s I got time! We not in 1885 anymore.”
Asserting her agency, Chioma revealed: “And I promise you that I’m not married right now is not by circumstance, it’s by CHOICE. Not gonna settle because everyone’s walking down the aisle and some are getting divorced 6 months later. Pls. Gods timing is everything. I’ll do it right.”
She concluded the exchange on a gracious note: “Love you though because I know you mean 🤍.
According to some relationship experts, the average marriage age in urban areas has shifted from early 20s to mid-30s in just one generation.
