Lara Adeboye, widow of late Nigerian comedian Gbenga Adeboye, has opened up about her relationship with Alhaji Lukman Ajuwon, a chieftain of the National Union of Road Transport Workers in Ifo Local Government Area of Ogun State, following her husband’s death.
Lara made the disclosure during a recent interview with Kanaty Sugar, where she recounted how Ajuwon supported her and her children during a difficult period after the death of the popular Yoruba entertainer.
The widow described Ajuwon as someone who stood firmly by her amid public criticism and controversies surrounding her life after her husband’s demise.
She said the NURTW chieftain also provided financial assistance, particularly in meeting the educational needs of her children.
According to Lara, Ajuwon would reimburse her whenever she spent her own money on the children’s school fees, while also defending her against criticism from members of the public.
She said, “I dated Lukman Ajuwon. He stood by me. Though we do not talk anymore because he is always on my case about wanting to marry me. He was a very good man to me.”
Despite acknowledging his support and describing him as a good man, Lara disclosed that their relationship eventually ended because of his persistent insistence on marriage.
She explained that they no longer communicate, although she remains appreciative of the role he played in supporting her and her children during the period.
Gbenga Adeboye, popularly known as Funwontan, was a renowned Yoruba comedian, entertainer, broadcaster and musician whose performances earned him widespread recognition in the Nigerian entertainment industry.
His death in April 2003 at the age of 39 marked the end of an era for many admirers of Yoruba comedy and entertainment.
Lara’s disclosure has since sparked conversations on social media, with users expressing differing opinions on widowhood, relationships, remarriage and the responsibilities of men who support women with children.
While some commenters argued that widows should be encouraged to rebuild their lives and pursue new relationships, others questioned the circumstances surrounding Lara’s relationship with Ajuwon.
The discussion has also renewed public interest in the family of the late comedian, whose legacy continues to attract attention more than two decades after his death.